Long-Term Relationship Maintenance

Is it normal for passion to fade in long-term relationships?

Some change is normal, but complete disappearance isn't inevitable. Passion requires attention, novelty, and addressing issues that create distance like resentment. Many couples maintain satisfying sexual lives for decades—though it often looks different than early relationship passion.

Can a relationship survive betrayal?

Yes, many relationships survive and even thrive after trust breaches—but it takes significant work from both partners. The person who caused harm must take full responsibility and demonstrate consistent change. The hurt person needs time and support to heal. Some relationships don't survive, and that's also valid.

How often should we revisit our relationship agreements?

Ideally, have a formal relationship review at least annually. More frequent check-ins (monthly or quarterly) can address issues before they grow. Additionally, any major life change (job, move, health issue, family change) warrants a conversation about whether your agreements still serve you.