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If someone doesn't say 'no', they're consenting
Fact
Silence is not consent. True consent requires an enthusiastic, sober 'yes.'
Consent must be freely given, reversible, informed, enthusiastic, and specific (FRIES). Someone might not say no due to ...
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Once consent is given, it can't be withdrawn
Fact
Consent can be withdrawn at any time, even during intimacy.
Consent is ongoing, not a one-time contract. You have the right to stop at any point, for any reason. Your partner must ...
Myth
Being in a relationship means automatic consent
Fact
Relationship status never equals automatic consent.
Marriage, dating, or past sexual activity does not create ongoing consent. Every sexual act requires fresh consent. Bein...
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If someone sends nudes, they're consenting to sex
Fact
Sending intimate photos does not equal consenting to physical intimacy.
Sharing nude photos is a separate act from physical intimacy. Someone might feel comfortable sharing images but not read...
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Consent is awkward—it kills the mood
Fact
Consent conversations increase arousal and trust for most people.
Research shows that clear communication about desires and boundaries actually enhances sexual satisfaction. Checking in ...
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If someone is drunk but says yes, it's consent
Fact
Intoxicated people cannot legally consent. Sober consent is the only consent.
Alcohol and drugs impair judgment and the ability to make decisions. If someone is intoxicated, they cannot legally give...
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Revealing clothing implies consent
Fact
Clothing never equals consent. Only words and actions do.
What someone wears has nothing to do with whether they're consenting to sex. A short skirt, low-cut top, or revealing ou...
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If they didn't physically fight back, they wanted it
Fact
Freezing is a common trauma response. No physical resistance is required to communicate non-consent.
During sexual assault, many victims freeze—they can't move, speak, or fight. This is an automatic biological response, n...
Myth
If you paid for dinner/drinks, sex is expected
Fact
Nothing purchases consent. Generosity isn't a transaction for sex.
Buying someone dinner, drinks, or gifts doesn't entitle you to sex. Period. That's not generosity; that's a transaction....
Myth
Consent is only about saying yes or no to sex
Fact
Consent applies to all intimate activities—kissing, touching, photos, and more.
Consent isn't just about penetrative sex—it's required for any intimate activity. Kissing, touching, taking photos durin...
Myth
If your partner really loved you, you wouldn't have to ask what they want
Fact
Mind-reading is a myth. Clear communication strengthens relationships.
No one can read minds, no matter how long you've been together. Expecting your partner to intuitively know your desires ...
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Bringing up issues will just make things worse
Fact
Unaddressed issues fester. Constructive communication prevents resentment.
Avoiding difficult conversations allows small problems to grow into relationship-ending resentments. The couples who las...
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